Most of you who are reading this were among the first respondents to today's ads on New York Craigslist, and you all should have received an email directing you to this particular site.
It certainly seems that interest in "dogging" is more than passing here in New York City, which is good. We're certainly blessed with many unique and one-of-a-kind locations in which to stage dogging "meets," and New York also has no shortage of kinksters, freaks, outright hedonists willing to take the dogging craze to a whole different level in Gotham. We're looking to stage the most hardcore, creative, limit-pushing dogging meets that we possibly can in New York. Eventually, we're talking dogging threesomes, bi-women dogging, various combinations of threesome and two-couple, full-swap dogging, and perhaps even a multiple partner dogging, should we be so lucky as to establish our scene without attracting undue attention.
We can't stress enough that Gotham Is Dogging! meets will make every effort to follow SAFE SEX practices as well as follow an agreed-upon code of conduct that will respect our enviornment, citizenry, and neighboring locales. Be prepared to clean up after yourself (and others, if need be) as well as occasionally function as security and an extra set of eyes...not everyone can watch actively all the time, and we'll all have to take a turn securing the perimeter of our dogging meets and keeping an eye peeled for authorities. Please be prepared to contribute to the active growth of a very tight, erotic, and taboo community.
We gratefully received word from a third couple who are enthusiastic exhibitionists and may have already upped our roster of regular dogging partners. We hope to give them and our other couples a chance to strut their stuff very soon.
We also have been contacted by several Brits who have participated in dogging meets over in the U.K., birthplace of the dogging craze. We'll certainly lean on them to share their experiences and suggestions, and we hope they'll become an active part of a new permutation of the dogging experience that will become uniquely New York!
Let those ideas fly, and let's all get out in the spring weather and seriously scout at least one location in our immediate area for a potential Gotham Is Dogging! meet.
Particular attention should be paid to concerns regarding:
1) Access to mass transit.
Since many of us don't drive in NYC, dogging in NYC cannot always rely upon the vehicles and "car parks," lover's lanes or country turn-offs that have spurred the dogging craze in the U.K. Here in NYC, we're looking to mostly establish locations that most members can access by subway or other mass transit, along with a reasonable walk/hike.
2) Security and isolation from minors and children.
Gotham Is Dogging! certainly does not want in any way, shape, or form to attract undue attention or complaints stemming from exposing our activities to children, minors, and/or uninterested parties. While there may be a thrill to throwing down a blanket in the middle of the Sheep Meadow on a sunny Saturday and shagging your girl to ecstatic completion, it's pretty impractical to expect to pull that kind of scene off for very long. Gotham Is Dogging! is seeking semi-secluded, outdoor, public
locations in which to stage our dogging meets. Locations should be able to comfortably accomodate 20-25 persons observing, along with ample room for 2-3 people to perform vigorously as doggers..
Gotham is Dogging! meets will always
be conducted with respect for the surrounding enviornments and neighboring locales. In a nutshell, that means CLEAN UP AFTER OURSELVES! Locations should have ample receptacles for used condoms, latex gloves, dental dams, tissues, lubricants, etc., and/or we should ALL be prepared to pack out whatever we bring in for a dogging meet. It would be a good idea to ALWAYS have a disposable plastic bag with you on your person to dispose of at least your own refuse that might be generated at a Gotham Is Dogging! meet. Keep the scene clean and safe, and it will be much easier to cultivate and maintain.
4) Entry & Exit.
Bear in mind that while dogging takes place in a very grey area of legalities regarding public sex (generally, as long as the activity is consensual by all parties and does not involve exposure to minors or children, we're ok), there may come a time when a dogging meet may be visited by pollice or other authorities. Let's please be sure in scouting locations for Gotham Is Dogging! meets that all locations have at least two access points
that can be used for quick and safe entry and exit by voyeurs and dogging partners in case of incident.
That's about all for tonight. Please register as a member of this blog if you'd like, and/or post questions, comments, concerns as you feel the need to. Comments are open to anyone viewing this blog.
Let's do some work together, and then LET'S GET TO DOGGING!